Mittwoch, 13. Februar 2013

Life in comparison – our personal FAQ



After three weeks in Germany to celebrate Christmas and New Year’s Eve with family and meeting friends, we are back in Minnesota now for a month. My nose has already adjusted to the slight smell of chloride the tap water over here has (luckily not as bad as in Houston, but of course worse than the natural water from my parents’ own fountain). And so did my scalp which awfully reacted to the combination of dry and cold weather at first, making my hair look awfully greasy. Hum, working on that.



Further, I am now a patient of the very huge Mayo Clinic: Got a general check-up and all kind of blood tests taken (mostly because of my thyroid malfunction). And I have started taking a Spanish class (provided by Rochester Community Education) and want to continue that since I love (learning) foreign languages. And though I mostly let Alex drive when the two of us are on the road especially with the snow and unsure road conditions, I really enjoy the more relaxed way of driving here. And meanwhile, we also got our Minnesota plates: Good Bye, Texas plates!

Standard plate: Minnesota (land of) 10,000 lakes
Upon our visit in Germany, we were asked a lot of questions about living in the USA. Some prejudices could already be eliminated by showing some of our photos: “Look, there are wind power plants!” (Somewhere in Iowa.) Though I must admit that most of my born and raised in the countryside friends were highly impressed by pictures of downtown Houston.



So here they are, our very personal FAQ from Germany, asked somewhere between caring and winking.



FAQ1: “What do you eat?”

A lot. Containing a lot of fat. And we do always eat. So far the cliché. In fact, nothing has changed that much about our diet. Since we have moved to Rochester and it is everything but too hot to use the stove, I enjoy cooking as much as I did back in Germany. Mostly soups or stews because they perfectly match the cold weather. Casseroles or a hearty “hot dish” would also be typical for Minnesota, but I haven’t tried one yet (and am just wondering why).
noodle soup with meat balls

I have even started baking my own bread because I do miss bread which cannot be squeezed (and then pops up again): a healthy 3-grain whole wheat flour bread with buttermilk – a recipe my mom gave me. And I want to try another German recipe with carrots and walnuts. But the local grocery stores like HyVee or Trader’s Joe (organic) also offer some good quality “like German” bread. We even have an ALDI food market here! Great for stocking up the pantry, but also offering some German products including Spätzle (Swabian noodles) or Pumpernickel (really dark rye bread). And the selection of reasonable priced cheeses is great.

But we adopted several things from over here: oatmeal (but made from scratch and milk, please!) or waffles for special occasion breakfasts (we usually have some toast). Alex has discovered peanut butter, while I prefer to stay with (Canadian) Nutella. In Germany, we mostly had warm lunch and a cold dinner – that has changed now, too.

German Bread can't be squeezed!

FAQ2: “In the supermarket, you can only buy everything in huuuge containers.”

Well, that is true – but I am getting used to it. Half a gallon of milk is what we mostly buy, the usual German size would be one liter – a little more than a quart. But milk – and orange juice as well – is also available in close-to-four-liter containers. I have not bought frozen pizza yet (and don’t think I will), but the standard size seems to be larger than the German one – and I am not talking about a family pizza. I don’t think I would be able to finish a standard pizza over here on my own. Eggs usually  go by the dozen (10 in Germany). Cheese and cold cuts are in size comparable to Germany, at least in the quality we usually buy. And that is mostly organic, especially when it comes to eggs, milk, potatos and salad. If the farmer’s market is going to be more frequent, I would shop there, too.

And comparing prices for eggs from cage system housing (which is, by the way, forbidden in the European Union) to those from organic growth – well, though I like to eat chicken:  I simply fell pity for the hens whose eggs are worth less than a dime…

Huge for German standard: flour and sugar are usually sold in 2 pound packages (1kg)



FAQ3: “You have a huge car, that’s for sure. Everyone does.”

Pictures often tell more than words, don’t they?


It still drives ...

But no, that is not our car! But that is what they could look like, especially for www.peopleofwalmart.com. Duct tape helds either the trunk or the whole backside of the car in place, the car is obviously rusty and – not to be seen in this picture – the tire on the back left was a lot smaller.

But well, compared to the Renault Twingo we had in Germany, everything is bigger. We now are proud owners of a sedan which would be a perfect car for senior citizens on both sides of the Atlantic Ocean in color and size: a golden Kia Optima, nine years old. It came with an automatic theft control – commonly known as manual transmission. We have no plans of purchasing a SUV since we invested a lot in that car. For example, we needed a new crank shaft sensor after our road trip.

Kia, back in Houston

FAQ4: “Have you already purchased a gun?”

No. And that won’t happen that fast. If I am informed correctly, we would at least need a green card for purchasing one in a store. And though hunting is a common hobby up here in the north, we have no plans of buying. (By the way: After the shooting in Connecticut – what a tragedy – in December, the sale rates for guns have risen, mostly because people are afraid of stricter laws.)



FAQ5: “How about folks?”

Well folks, folks is different. As different as in Germany! Not all Germans drink beer, eat sausage and love eating kraut all the time while listening to German folk music. And not all Americans shoot from while driving their Ford V8 pick-up. It is more likely they would be texting or talking on their cell phone. But however, on both sides of the Atlantic, there are such folks.

When it comes to the Upper Midwest, the people here are best described as being “Minnesota nice”. That implies being kind of friendly in general, based on the principle “Don’t believe you are better than others.” So far, we have not have the chance to get to know people better – except for the Auton family. On first sight, most contacts are made by either having children or church. Both things do not apply in our case. We still feel not comfortable with how important church and faith over here is, therefore we don’t involve in church. You would say “keep your fingers crossed” or “wish me luck” in Germany, over here it is called “I pray for you”. That still feels strange, even to my German Lutheran heart and soul.




I am sorry it took me so long to post …